Finding the perfect partner is the ultimate goal of life to many people. It is something that money cannot buy and it something that so many are doing wrong. Many relationships are focused on settling, being comfortable or not wanting to be alone. That makes finding the perfect one so much more of a pleasurable experience – because of how rare it is.
The odds of finding your perfect partner are slim – depending on your definition of a perfect partner. The term makes one think of combing the entire globe. Sometimes dating is confined to a geographical area, it doesn’t have to be though. Yes, many people still meet at work. Yes, many people tend to date within their region. Thanks to dating app options, interested daters need no longer be forced to select from mates within 25 miles.
The key is to expand your definition of a perfect partner. You could run into your perfect partner and they might be married. That person might not be the most suitable choice (at the moment). Consider adjusting your definition of a perfect partner, there is no reason why you cant have more than one perfect partner throughout your life either. As you grow and evolve through life, thus your dating life and preferences mature also, it makes sense that your definition of a perfect partner might shape-shift as well.
Before searching for the perfect partner, you should definitely get to know yourself. Before looking for traits in another person that you want, take the time to figure out who you are and which personality types you mesh well with.
A dream partner shouldn’t be too idealized. At the end of the day, you want someone who accepts the bad along with the good. Getting to know someone involves letting your walls down and sharing fears along with dreams. Being able to accept each other’s vulnerabilities and weaknesses. Your ideal partnership should have some elements of friendship running through it – with an added romantic edge.
For some people, the romantic edge isn’t that important. There are many people who partner up just because they have similar lifestyles and interests. That could be enough to carry most couples, it does for many. After all, you are spending time with your perfect partner, bonding and sharing similar interests can be a rewarding way to live life.
Other people have slightly more superficial needs in a partner. They want someone who looks a certain way, holds a certain title, comes from a certain social circle. These qualities don’t define the quality of a person though. Over time finding a compatible person will be a smoother process, you will gradually thin the herd if you open yourself to meeting new people. The ones that are perfect might not be apparent, the ones that definitely will not work for you will also appear.
Besides dating apps and sites like 包養, remaining social will lead to the most candidates. Try classes or group activities where the focus is more of a group atmosphere to start.
Also check out this awesome TED talk, if you have time:
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